Do Some People Need To Fight To Stay Together?

From my observation, maybe some people do.

I have been in and out of a relationship. I have seen my friends. I have witnessed my closest family in and out of love.

From what I see and observe, people sometimes feel bored if they don't fight. There is one of my friend in uni, let's name her L.

L : Aku bosan la. Rasa nak cari pasal dengan boyfren aku.

I : Awat pulak dah? Dah duduk elok - elok. Tiba - tiba cari gaduh. Hehe.

L: I need entertainment. I'm bored.

L have been in a relationship with her boyfriend for quite sometimes. I think I understand what she feels. She said she needs something.

To keep her going.
To escape from her daily routine.
To escape from their daily texting.

And that makes me think. How do people survive marriage life? Marriage is commitment and routine. You wake up in the morning to the same person. You did the same thing everyday. Nag about the same thing. Love the some people even if they annoy you, makes you cry.You commit to it.

Can I survive my own marriage? Sometimes I wonder what my mom and my father think about this.
Do they get bored?
Can they survive each other?
Does morning breath annoy them?

I don't mind routine. I really do. I think routine makes us sane. Makes us human. I love waking up to the same person. Get him ready to work. Pray behind the same person. For me, marriage is more than that.

I asked A about this.

I: Awak, awak ok tak tengok muka saya setiap hari? Muka saya ja yang awak tengok bila balik dari kerja?

A: Ok ja awak. Tu impian saya.